London Day 3 & 4 (Friday and Saturday)
This trip is turning out to be one of the richest experiences I’ve ever had! Yesterday (Friday), I woke up early and took the 8:44 train to Hither Green, a suburb of London. There I met Richard Mangan who works at the Mander and Mitchenson Theatre Collection. Richard has been a serious collector of Olivier memorabillia for about 40 years and his collection is the most glorious thing I’ve ever seen. Literally. As I said on LJ, it took me 7 hours to look through it all and it was mind boggling. he has so many things i never even knew existed! I definitely have a ton to look out for if I’m ever going to have anything nearly as amazing! On top of this, he was a stage manager at the National and worked with Larry. He had some wonderful stories, and it sounds like Larry was a really good guy, a very professional man, and he was awesome! Just as I suspected!
I adore Larry, as you know.
Richard and his wife couldn’t have been more kind or hospitable and I LOVED looking at his collection! Thanks, Richard (if you read this), I had a wonderful time! You’ve done good, real good!!
I stopped by David Drummnd’s shop afterword and picked up some fun things for my collection
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So today I woke up at…5:30 am? I know, wtf, when was the last time that happened? (Answer: a looooong time ago). I have been going to bed early and rising early because I’m determined to see EVERYTHING I want to see. I left at 6:30 and my face and hands almost froze off, seriously, it’s SO COLD here. It didn’t help that I mispaced my gloves. I took the train to Leicester Square and walked over to Covent Garden, got some coffee and a croissant, and then took some photos and walked back to Trafalgar Square and had breakfast with Mr Horatio Nelson and his lions in front of the National Gallery. The streets were practically deserted, it was lovely!
Then I wandered with my freezing hands over toward Westminster, and across Jubilee Bridge to Waterloo again for another Old Vic tour with a man named Ned who let me join in with a tour group of some sort. I was disappointed that there was only one Olivier name drop but it was still interesting!
Afterword I grabbed tea at the National Theatre coffee shop and then met Katie (sassygirl on LJ) at the Larry statue (a good meeting place!). We got pizza at Waterloo and then headed to Chelsea to see the famous Vivien leigh places of residence. After walking around in vain for about an hour we weren’t able to find Lowndes Cottage, but we did go to Eaton Square (which is still under construction unfortunately). I got a pic of Viv’s bench over the fence and a rather bitchy lady with her dogs walked into the garden but refused to let us in to snap a photo. No biggie, it turns out I’m rather glad she didn’t let us in…But we were standing in front of 54 Eaton Square when this Asian girl walks up to the door and starts to go in. I asked if she lived there and she said yes, she helps Louise (Rainer, Oscar winner for The Good Earth). She said she didn’t know much about Vivien which made me sad. But it was cool to see someone go in there. I don’t think she totally understood what we were saying. Oh well.
Then we walked over to Christchurch Street and saw Durham Cottage–much better in the daylight. We were loitering across the street when GUESS WHAT HAPPENED?! A man walked up and went in the gate!! Katie went over (I was scared) and told him I was a Vivien fan and asked if we could take some photos! He said yes (Way to go, Katie!!)! So he let us in the gate and we got some nice ones of the garden walkway and everything! He was so nice and pretty cute too. I asked if he lived there and he said his godfather did, whom he helps because he has alzheimers. He said his godfather bought the house from Vivien Leigh. I about died! WHAT LUCK! If the bitchy woman from Eaton Square had let us in we would have missed catching the boy (Max, I think he said) at Durham Cottage! He said he’d have invited us in but his godfather has alzheimers and gets really confused with new faces. We said it was okay, we were just happy be lucky enough to catch him coming back from the grocery store! He also said he’d met Tarquin and I asked if he was nice, and he said yes. Amazing times! Katie, it was lovely to meet you finally!
The reason I asked if Tarquin was nice was because I was to meet him later (I just got back and en route to the tube from his house I stopped in this internet cafe). Anyway, so I was really nervous walking to the Olivier flat, but not so much after meeting him (He’s my fave, by the way, I always said if I could meet anyone who knew Larry and Viv it would be him). He looks so so so much like Larry (was wearing the signet ring Larry wore and has the same eyes–GRAy for the record, like Larry’s!!) and had nothing but wonderful things to say about Vivien and fun stories about his dad. And in case you were wondering (as I was for a long time), yes, he is still friends with “Suzy” who also lives in London.
I love that he adored Vivien and said he was never bitter about Larry’s leaving Jill for her because he always loved her, as he says in his book My Father Laurence Olivier (READ IT! It’s wonderful!). Viv was exciting and she and Larry were very much in love (my theory was confirmed!!!) even though it was sometimes really hard because of her illness. He said Viv told him once that she and Larry were “Mentally and physically in love but never spiritaully in love” because they knew that their relationship was made from hurting other people and they both felt guilty about it (Larry always it seems from what I’ve read). Anyway, Tarquin is very nice and seems to love talking about Larry and Viv (as you guessed, Lyndsy!) and I really enjoyed talking to him and still can’t believe I got the opportunity! It was a total dream come true! And he had some good stories about David Niven at Notley since I brought him up and said David was my favorite of Larry and Viv’s friends. Apparently Hjordis knew very little English and used to go around saying “WOOOONDERFUL!” all the time. But she was a bitch, as I learned recently when reading the authrized biography, Niv, and was terrible to poor David. And then I got kind of sad because Hjordis and David used to be my third fave couple. BOOO, Hjordis!!
Tarquin used to hang out with Christina Crawford at Joan Crawford’s house. And he showed me his stamp collection from when Thomas Mann used to live next door to them in Hollywood, and the stuff Larry sent him from Australia in 1948.
Anyway, he had to run after a bit and I still had so many questions to ask! I guess I will over email, but it was so amazing to meet him in person!! YAY!
I’m so tired now so I think I’ll go pay and go to sleep soon. Tomorrow I’ll take it easy. Then Monday I’m off to start my adventures at the British Library (You don’t know how excited I am!)!
Good night!

Ah ah !!! That’s great !!! That’s what I find always amazing with those obsessions… The way they drive you to go and travel and meet and study and learn and dare and have a life. A total life. More rich, more fun… !!! So many things in so few hours. Bravo, Kendra.
Oooh Kendra, I’m so amazed at how much you were able to do in one day. You so deserve this, and I’m sooo happy for you
Thank you for sharing our experiences with us all!
- Sebina
omfg awesome!!!!!!!! You are so lucky.
Look at you! And you were nervous about the big T. . . Proud of you girl. Keep safe xoxoxoxo
Yay! Did you record the chat with Tarquin? Or get a photo with him? I had such a fun day today, it was lovely to finally meet you and have an adventure!
Yay! Did you record the chat with Tarquin? Or get a photo with him? I had such a fun day today, it was lovely to finally meet you and have an adventure!
I cannot believe you’ve fitted so much into your days and it hasn’t even been a week yet. Definitely take it easy tomorrow, you don’t want to hurt your knee! Maybe go see a film or see a museum? I’m so pleased you’ve taken this opportunity and you’re having such fun! Max was so lovely, so nice of him to talk to us. Shame about bitchy dog lady, I still think you should visit another time to see if you can get a better pic of the bench! If not, I’ll do it for you haha. Have a fabulous day on Monday and let me know if you’re still able to meet up in the evening!
“Tarquin used to hang out with Christina Crawford at Joan Crawford’s house.”
Ohh I bet he has stories.haha.
Anyway this is all so great!! I’m so glad things have been going well, and it’s wonderful that you got to meet Tarquin. Claps for the Brits for being so accommodating and nice. Except for the one bitchy lady.
Kendra, I am so glad I made you contact him and I’m so proud of you for following it through! I am totally glad you went to London and you’re doing this research, not only are you having a wonderful cultural experience, but we are too and thanks for it!
xx
Heh, I was going to say what Meredith said about the Crawfords.
I’m reeeeallly tired so I don’t know what to say except: wow!
I can’t believe you met Tarquin- that’s amazing!! And it’s even greater to hear that he is a nice guy
Seriously, fate always has a way for making things work out- like with the gate incident. I’m glad it’s all been working out!
I heart David Niven, seriously, booo on his wife
Okay wtf, I wrote out a whole response some 3 or 4 hours ago and it didn’t show up. Boo, wordpress! Anyway, I’m repeating myself…
Tanguy–I totally agree, I felt very compelled to make this trip because at this point in time Larry and Vivien ARE what I’m most passionate about, and everything associated with them! I’ve learned so much in the past 3 days and so much has happened that I can’t really believe it! But I feel all the wiser for having made the effort!
Sebina–Thanks so much! you know how I love them
Now I want to see you take a Barbara Stanwyck tour! Hehe
Alexa–I know, I feel really lucky, and whether or not anything comes of it (like my project i sometimes talk about), I’m just so glad to be having the experience and meeting so many amazing people!!
Carla–I know, I was so nervous, but he’s nice! So, yay!
Everyone has been wonderful so far!
Katie–No, I didn’t record it or get a photo but he autographed my copy of his book (and one for a friend) and it was wonderful! he’s full of stories, I only wish I had had more time to chat! I feel like I’ve done a lot since getting here, it’s like overload, lol, so I’m chilling today. I went to Picadilly and found the magazine shop we talked about and I found some fun larry and Viv things! I totally want to meet up tomorrow, what’s the station?
Meredith–I expect he does have some good stories about Christina and Joan yah! lol
So fab!
I’m glad I met the bitchy lady, because if someone nicer had let us in, we wouldn’t have met Max (?) at Durham Cottage!
Lyndsy–Thanks for the push, I’m glad I got in touch with him as well, he has so many stories and he just adored Viv as you know! You were right–he does love talking about them! I’m glad you’re having fun reading!
Elizabeth-Anne–haha totally, i bet there are so many stories about Christina and Joan!
Mariana–I know, I can’t believe it either and I’m so glad he’s nice because I was so nervous at first! But then i got over it and I really liked talking with him and he has wonderful stories about Larry and Viv! And he really liked the photos |I brought along to show him, too! It does seem like a bit of fate intervened on this trip *knock on wood* and I hope everything else goes well, it’s like maybe it really was meant to be!
I know, boooo Hjordis that frigid bitch. But guess what! A Matter of Life and Death is Tarquin’s fave David Niven movie, too! YAYAYA!
Oooh Kendra, I so want to do a Barbara Stanwyck tour — I NEED to visit USA *dreamy sigh*
Kendraaaa… so exciting!!! I don’t know what else to say about all of this lol. I feel as if I keep repeating myself in every comment but it IS “so exciting.” I’m really glad Tarquin was so nice and I’m still chuckling about your description of “bitchy lady with dogs” – ha ha. Oh well, that situation worked out for the best, didn’t it? And definitely don’t forget those cool Viv and /or Larry stories you heard. You must share a couple of them.. someday.. before one of us dies. Ha ha. But then what am I saying? Kendra Bean forget Viv and Larry stories?
xoxoxo
Sebina–yes, yes you do! I bet you can find loads of stuff in Hollywood!
Julia–Tell me about it! it’s like a dream come true, literally! I never thought I’d get to meet so many people let alone i such a short time span, but make the most of it is my motto I guess, so I’m doing it
That lady was very snobby, so FAIL on her but it did turn out for the best, like fate or something! Me, forget Larry and Viv stories? Highly unlikely! but I wrote them down just in case, lol
Hi
Love your blog. I too love the Oliviers; it’s so nice to read about other people’s thoughts and experiences.
I’m most intrigued though to know more about your meeting with Tarquin… and how you got to meet him…
S xx